{"id":308,"date":"2025-07-05T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-07-05T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/?p=308"},"modified":"2025-03-06T15:58:02","modified_gmt":"2025-03-06T15:58:02","slug":"article-5-le-poids-de-lenfance-se-detacher-de-ses-traumatismes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/?p=308","title":{"rendered":"Le poids de l\u2019enfance : se d\u00e9tacher de ses traumatismes."},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"308\" class=\"elementor elementor-308\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4bbb760 e-flex e-con-boxed wpr-particle-no wpr-jarallax-no wpr-parallax-no wpr-sticky-section-no wpr-column-slider-no wpr-equal-height-no e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"4bbb760\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-06ce63a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"06ce63a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Childhood_original_523698-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-309\" alt=\"Enfant et ourson - le poids de l&#039;enfance- Christelle vardis\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Childhood_original_523698-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Childhood_original_523698-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Childhood_original_523698-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Childhood_original_523698-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Childhood_original_523698-2048x1367.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38abd30 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"38abd30\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Nous trainons derri\u00e8re nous tout au long de notre vie tout ce que nous avons v\u00e9cu durant notre\u00a0<strong>enfance<\/strong>. Les valeurs qu\u2019on nous a inculqu\u00e9es, la confiance qu\u2019on nous a transmise, l\u2019amour qu\u2019on nous a donn\u00e9 bien entendu, mais aussi tous les\u00a0<strong>traumatismes<\/strong>\u00a0que nous avons pu subir. Humiliations, maltraitances, harc\u00e8lement, abandon, rejet, trahison\u2026 sont autant de cha\u00eenes qui nous emp\u00eachent de nous \u00e9panouir \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e2ge adulte.<\/p><p><strong>L\u2019enfant que nous avons \u00e9t\u00e9 continue d\u2019exister en nous<\/strong><\/p><p>Quel que soit notre \u00e2ge, l\u2019enfant que nous avons \u00e9t\u00e9 continue d\u2019exister en nous. Il se tapit quelque part en nous et nous envoie des signaux, de joie ou de d\u00e9tresse selon les cas. Cet enfant ne dispara\u00eet jamais. Nous sommes le produit des diff\u00e9rents \u00e9v\u00e9nements qui nous ont soit construits de fa\u00e7on solide, soit malheureusement, ab\u00eem\u00e9s.<\/p><p>Si un enfant a \u00e9t\u00e9 \u00e9lev\u00e9 dans un milieu s\u00e9cure, stable, s\u2019il a re\u00e7u suffisamment d\u2019attentions et d\u2019amour, si son entourage a su lui donner confiance en lui, l\u2019adulte en devenir sera davantage \u00e9quilibr\u00e9 et serein. Ce qui ne signifie pas qu\u2019il va vivre sa vie sans aucune turbulence, mais les bases \u00e9tant stables, il saura se relever rapidement lorsqu\u2019il rencontrera des difficult\u00e9s.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-125beda elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"125beda\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Couple_Walking_Outside_With_Their_Baby_In_A_Carriage_original_2620723-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-310\" alt=\"couple avec poussette - Le poids de l&#039;enfance - Christelle vardis\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Couple_Walking_Outside_With_Their_Baby_In_A_Carriage_original_2620723-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Couple_Walking_Outside_With_Their_Baby_In_A_Carriage_original_2620723-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Couple_Walking_Outside_With_Their_Baby_In_A_Carriage_original_2620723-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Couple_Walking_Outside_With_Their_Baby_In_A_Carriage_original_2620723-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Couple_Walking_Outside_With_Their_Baby_In_A_Carriage_original_2620723-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20fefbf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"20fefbf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00c0 contrario, un enfant qui a v\u00e9cu dans une\u00a0<strong>famille dysfonctionnelle<\/strong>, qui a manqu\u00e9 d\u2019amour, qui a subi des violences, portera ces stigmates en lui, m\u00eame \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e2ge adulte.<\/p><p>Comme l\u2019a \u00e9crit le psychiatre am\u00e9ricain<em>\u00a0Bessel van der Kolk<\/em>\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0Le corps n\u2019oublie rien\u00a0\u00bb. Ni les violences dont il a \u00e9t\u00e9 victime, ni les paroles blessantes qui lui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 adress\u00e9es. Nous gardons en nous l\u2019empreinte des \u00e9v\u00e9nements traumatiques que nous avons v\u00e9cus durant notre enfance.<\/p><p>Nous fonctionnons exactement comme des poup\u00e9es russes. Si la poup\u00e9e centrale est ab\u00eem\u00e9e, f\u00eal\u00e9e, l\u2019adulte que nous devenons ne tiendra pas debout correctement, il sera pour ainsi dire bancal.<\/p><p>Bien souvent, nous entendons dans les cabinets de consultation le genre de phrases suivantes : \u00ab\u00c7a, je n\u2019y pense plus, c\u2019est fini, \u00e7a remonte \u00e0 longtemps, c\u2019est derri\u00e8re moi maintenant. \u00bb Les patients jettent un \u00e9norme plaid sur les\u00a0<strong>souvenirs douloureux<\/strong>, sur les plaies b\u00e9antes de l\u2019enfance, afin de survivre et d\u2019avancer tant bien que mal. C\u2019est ce qu\u2019on appelle un\u00a0<strong>m\u00e9canisme de d\u00e9fense<\/strong>. L\u2019inconscient met en place des stratag\u00e8mes afin de surmonter ce qui lui appara\u00eet comme insupportable.<\/p><p>Mais aucune plaie n\u2019est en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 cicatris\u00e9e tant qu\u2019on ne l\u2019a pas soign\u00e9e comme il se doit. L\u2019ignorer n\u2019y change rien, au mieux elle fait souffrir, au pire elle s\u2019infecte et la douleur empire.<\/p><p>Le psychologue\u00a0<em>Pierre Janet<\/em>\u00a0a expliqu\u00e9 qu\u2019apr\u00e8s avoir subi un traumatisme, les individus le revivent continuellement \u00e0 travers les \u00e9motions qu\u2019ils ont ressenties alors et qui ne cessent de se r\u00e9p\u00e9ter, \u00e0 l\u2019infini. Du coup la personne concern\u00e9e est comme ligot\u00e9e \u00e0 son pass\u00e9 et ne peut avancer.<\/p><p>Il est fr\u00e9quent de recevoir en consultation des patient.e.s qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 rabaiss\u00e9.e.s, humili\u00e9.e.s par un parent voire les deux.<\/p><p><em>\u00ab\u00a0Je ne sais pas ce que je vais faire de toi\u2026 Personne ne voudra jamais de toi\u2026 Regarde-toi, tu es tellement moche\u2026 Je me demande m\u00eame si tu es de moi\u2026 Comment peut-on \u00eatre aussi b\u00eate\u00a0?\u00bb<\/em><\/p><p>Ces phrases sont autant de coups de poignards qui laissent des cicatrices profondes sur les adultes qu\u2019ils sont devenus. Ces personnes ont du mal \u00e0 se regarder dans un miroir, \u00e0 croire qu\u2019elles peuvent s\u00e9duire et plaire. Dans la plupart des cas, elles se d\u00e9testent, n\u2019ont aucune estime d\u2019elles-m\u00eames, et ont beaucoup de mal \u00e0 se construire en tant qu\u2019hommes ou femmes. Au fond d\u2019eux-m\u00eames, ces individus restent ces enfants humili\u00e9s, rabaiss\u00e9s par un parent ayant l\u2019ascendant sur eux et dont ils n\u2019attendaient pourtant qu\u2019un amour inconditionnel.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18d139d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"18d139d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_Sitting_In_Bathroom_original_2270716-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-314\" alt=\"Homme deprime face \u00e0 un miroir - Le poids de l&#039;enfance - Chrsitelle Vardis\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_Sitting_In_Bathroom_original_2270716-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_Sitting_In_Bathroom_original_2270716-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_Sitting_In_Bathroom_original_2270716-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_Sitting_In_Bathroom_original_2270716-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_Sitting_In_Bathroom_original_2270716-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6d87030 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6d87030\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Il faut bien comprendre qu\u2019un petit enfant pense toujours m\u00e9riter ce qu\u2019il subit de la part de ses parents, il ne remet pas en cause les maltraitances qu\u2019il subies puisqu\u2019elles lui sont inflig\u00e9es par ceux qui lui ont donn\u00e9 la vie, qui sont sens\u00e9s savoir ce qui est bon pour lui. Plus tard, il prendra conscience de ce qui s\u2019est pass\u00e9, il pourra r\u00e9aliser que ce dont il a \u00e9t\u00e9 victime \u00e9tait totalement injuste, mais il gardera en lui ces<strong>\u00a0blessures<\/strong>.<\/p><p><strong>Comment se d\u00e9tacher de l\u2019enfant que nous avons \u00e9t\u00e9\u00a0et de ce qu\u2019il a subi ?<\/strong><\/p><p>La premi\u00e8re chose \u00e0 faire est avant tout de\u00a0<strong>lib\u00e9rer la parole<\/strong>. Le th\u00e9rapeute pourra \u00e9galement proposer au \/\u00e0 la patient.e d\u2019\u00e9crire, de coucher sur le papier tous les souvenirs, les \u00e9motions, les ressentis li\u00e9s \u00e0 ce qu\u2019il \/ elle a subi. Ecrire est en effet parfois plus facile que parler. Dans tous les cas, d\u00e9poser ce qu\u2019on a v\u00e9cu et tout ce qu\u2019on ressent aupr\u00e8s d\u2019une oreille bienveillante ou sur une feuille de papier, vider autant que possible un sac trop lourd est un premier pas qui demande certes beaucoup de courage mais qui est \u00f4 combien salutaire. N\u00e9anmoins, comprendre, savoir pourquoi persiste ce\u00a0<strong>mal-\u00eatre<\/strong>, en analyser ses origines, ne permet malheureusement pas d\u2019effacer la douleur. Lib\u00e9rer la parole \u00e9claircit les zones d\u2019ombre, ce qui est certes un bon d\u00e9but, mais cela n\u2019est pas suffisant.<\/p><p>Il existe diff\u00e9rents compl\u00e9ments \u00e0 la th\u00e9rapie, afin d\u2019avancer :<\/p><ul><li><strong>L\u2019EMDR<\/strong>\u00a0: d\u00e9sensibilisation et reprogrammation par des mouvements oculaires (Eye Movements Desensitisation and Reprocessing). L\u2019EMDR permet une r\u00e9duction des souvenirs traumatisants, en amenant les victimes de traumatismes \u00e0 se souvenir de leurs exp\u00e9riences difficiles, et, par des mouvements r\u00e9p\u00e9titifs des yeux qui simulent l\u2019effet gu\u00e9risseur du sommeil paradoxal.<\/li><li><strong>L\u2019hypnose<\/strong>\u00a0permet d\u2019apaiser l\u2019enfant int\u00e9rieur qui est en chacun de nous en mettant en avant des ressources positives (souvenirs agr\u00e9ables, lieux apaisants\u2026) afin de faire reculer les \u00e9motions n\u00e9gatives. Il s\u2019agit en quelque sorte de rendre au pass\u00e9 ce qui appartient au pass\u00e9, afin de s\u2019ancrer dans le pr\u00e9sent et de vivre de fa\u00e7on plus apais\u00e9e.<\/li><li>Le<strong>\u00a0neurofeedback par \u00e9lectroenc\u00e9phalogramme<\/strong>\u00a0(EEG) : Des \u00e9lectrodes reli\u00e9es \u00e0 un ordinateur sont plac\u00e9es sur le cuir chevelu de la personne concern\u00e9e, ainsi, certaines zones sont r\u00e9activ\u00e9es afin d\u2019influencer les pens\u00e9es et \u00e9motions du sujet en temps r\u00e9el.<\/li><li>On peut \u00e9galement observer les bienfaits du\u00a0<strong>yoga<\/strong>, \u00e0 la\u00a0<strong>m\u00e9ditation pleine conscience<\/strong>\u2026<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-855c098 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"855c098\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_In_Therapy_original_568510-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-313\" alt=\"Homme en th\u00e9rapie - Le poids de l&#039;enfance - Christelle Vardis\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_In_Therapy_original_568510-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_In_Therapy_original_568510-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_In_Therapy_original_568510-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_In_Therapy_original_568510-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/christelle-vardis-psy.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Sad_Man_In_Therapy_original_568510-2048x1365.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-ka-cursor-size=\"1\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4831b2b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4831b2b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;kng_cursor_interaction&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_magnetic&quot;:&quot;none&quot;,&quot;kng_cursor_size_multiplier&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:1,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]}}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Quelle que soit la m\u00e9thode choisie, il est important de savoir que dans ces situations-l\u00e0 on n\u2019est pas seuls, qu\u2019une main bienveillante peut \u00eatre tendue et qu\u2019on peut s\u2019en sortir. 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